Mutual Masturbation? well lately me and my other guy friend have been talking about masturbation, like who we do it to, what we do, and stuff and we have both been curious about mutual masturbation...the other night we told each other that we had masturbated to each other many times, but we are both straight..also he wants to see my "thing" for comparison..is this all wrong or usual for 15 year olds? and are there a lot of guys who do this with their other guy friends(either masturbate to each other or mutually masturabte together)? |
| There's nothing wrong. You're both curious. That's normal for everyone. Many young men compare the size, etc. of their penis with another guy. We women do it with our breasts and don't think a thing about it. Go ahead, if you are both comfortable with mutual masturbation. It's not going to hurt anything. |
Mutual masturbation ? Is mutual masturbation gay for two guys to do with a 35 year age difference?? |
Assuming this is a serious question, it certainly is unusual.
Technically, mutual masturbation by guys at any age is a homosexual act because it's two people of the same gender engaging in sexual acts in each other's presence.
But it's very common for teens (43%) and most never have any other homosexual acts as adults.
If the younger person is under 18, then it's a crime for the older person to be doing that - even if the younger person is fully willing or even if the younger person initiated it (which would be unusual).
If the younger person is 18 or older, then I guess it's up to the individuals and their relationship.
Like I said, it's homosexual behavior, but I can see where guys would masturbate together and not have any interest in anything more. When I was a teen and jerked off with friends I really really liked it, but the idea of oral or anal or kissing a guy was repulsive to me.
I haven't done it as an adult but I can see where it might be the same way.
If it's strangers or mere acquaintances, it's definitely very strange. If it's a really close friend or maybe an uncle or even a dad or much older brother, then that might be a different story. |
Mutual masturbation? I'm a guy. So lately I heard about mutual masturbation. It seems like something I would like to try. My best friend and I talk about porn and sex alot. We know that we both masturbate alot. However, I have never seen him naked, masturbated with him, or watched porn with him. My question is, how would I go about doing this? I want to try mutual masturbation with him, up to the touching. I do NOT want to go further than that. So how would I go about doing this? Was thinking just having him over and after video games pop in a porno or something, maybe masturbate myself with my clothes on. How would you go on from here? And what if it freaks him out or he says something like he doesn't want to.
Also, I am straight. I have been reading a site where people have posted mutual masturbation stories and a lot are straight heterosexuals.
Any advice from people who have done it or any advice at all? I dont want to lose him as a friend. THANKS |
| Your idea of a video then porn is on track. If he is interested he'll be saying something or touching himself. Maybe once you're both horny you might say something like: "Got to get my rocks off, mind if I pull my pud while watching?" He may just go along with it. Chances are you'll both end up touching, and jerking each other. As far as being straight goes, I'd say you are young and bi curious as he is and there is nothing wrong with that. |
Is having mutual masturbation considered sex outside of marriage? Is having mutual masturbation considered sex outside of marriage? Let's say both partners are not married. |
| Life's too short. One day your here the next day your not. If you worry about little things like that your not living life to the full. Just go for it! |
Is there a time to stop mutual masturbation, or is it an alright thing to pursure as a regular activity? I've got some friends that want to do mutual masturbation. I'm 24, and haven't done that in a long time. Am I too old, or is it ok to masturbate with guys and girls my age? |
| I think it is fine. just don't do anything you aren't comfortable with and make sure you are safe. it is good to set and agree on boundaries BEFORE you guys start just so things don't get out of hand. (no pun intended). experimentation is fine. enjoy it while it lasts! |
Is it wrong to want to engage in mutual masturbation with another guy? I've searched the web, but I cannot find the answer: is it bad to want to masturbate with another guy? I know for a fact I'm straight - I make out with girls, and I don't really want to kiss a guy, but I want to try having one touch me and letting me touch them. Is this wrong? If it isn't, how should I let him know I want to engage in mutual masturbation? |
| Of course it's not wrong to want to engage in mutual masturbation with another guy........ thats only my opinion and I'm gay........... |
Is it common for straight guys to experience mutual masturbation? My friend and I had a one time occurance where we masturbated beside each other. Now, he wants us to masturbate each other. Is it a common thing for straight guys to have experienced mutual masturbation? |
There are two levels to this; neither is necessarily gay. A lot of straight teenagers enjoy masturbating together, and there's no reason why you shouldn't – see the first link below.
However, masturbating each other means there's a risk of infection – the amount of risk depending on how sexually active either of you has been. For example, genital warts can be spread this way, and can be difficult or impossible to cure.
Being gay includes feeling in love with another male – some degree of interest in one's own sex is perfectly normal, especially for teenagers.
If you and your friend enjoy sharing your sexuality in this way I suggest you just watch each other, and avoid touching – it isn't worth the risk. |
Is it wrong to wish to engage in mutual masturbation? I've searched the web, but I cannot find the answer: is it bad to want to masturbate with another guy? I know for a fact I'm straight - I make out with girls, and I don't really want to kiss a guy, but I want to try having one touch me and letting me touch them. Is this wrong? If it isn't, how should I let him know I want to engage in mutual masturbation? |
| I think that you should try it slowly. Start with a gentle kiss in the testicles and go up slowly and with confidence, the lick and suck hard. If you are ok after that, touch is penis and go for it! |
How safe is mutual masturbation? Help me with this doubt. Imagine two male guys practicing mutual masturbation. If one of them is HIV+ and ends up having his hand/fingers dirty with precum or sperm and touches the other guys penis glans, is there any real risc of contamination? |
| Hi well there is some risk if u exchange bodily fluids so one has to say if u practise this type of behaviour then take precautions especially if u know the other is a possible carrier OK ♥ |
Im 14. Can i oral sex and mutual masturbation with my 16 year old boyfriend? I am a 14 year old girl and my boy friend is 16.. Is it illegal for us to have oral sex and mutual masturbation? Will he go to jail if he fingers me or i give him head? We have been dating six months and have only kissed.. Also, is it illegal for him to kiss me in public? I live in NSW, Australia If that helps.. PLEASE HELP ME! |
Aus and NZ laws are similar. You are perfectly fine to kiss in public.
The sexual stuff you have mentioned can be deemed illegal as you are age.
Legal age to have sexual contact is 16 in both our countries… your 14!
He could be seen as a guy predator and be done for a raft of offensive one being statutory rape regardless of you wanting to or not.
Your 14! Be a 14 year old and don’t grow up too fast…
All the best. |